Remote Selling
How to Overcome Brush-Offs (and Get Prospects Talking)
Let’s face it, every seller has been brushed off (and probably quite often).
“I’m not interested.”
“We’re all set.”
“I don’t have time right now.”
Sound familiar? If you’re making outbound sales calls, cold or warm, you’ve heard these before. But here’s the good news: Brush-offs are not objections. And when you know how to handle them, you can double your talk time, increase your conversion rates, and book more meetings.
I’ve broken down my 6 tips and tactics to help you beat the brush-off and turn dismissals into meaningful conversations. Let’s dive in!
Brush-Offs Are NOT Objections
Objections happen late in the sales cycle after you’ve made your pitch and the buyer has concerns, usually about price, timing, or fit. Brush-offs? They happen early, and they’re not objections at all.

Think of a brush-off like an automatic reflex. It’s the prospect’s way of saying, “I don’t have time for a sales pitch right now.” That’s all it is. And it doesn’t mean they aren’t a good fit or won’t buy from you later. It just means they don’t know you… yet.
So, what’s your job? Keep the conversation going, show them you’re different, and provide value ASAP.
READ: How to Keep Prospects on the Phone
Brush-Offs Are Uninformed (That’s Good News!)
Prospects brush you off because they don’t know who you are or what you’re selling. That’s great news! It means they haven’t actually rejected you, they just haven’t heard your value yet.
This is why you should never “kill” a lead based on a brush-off. Too many sellers give up too quickly, assuming the lead is a dead end. In reality, the prospect just isn’t paying attention.
Here’s why you shouldn’t take brush-offs personally:
- They’re often automatic responses, not actual decisions
- The prospect is likely multitasking or distracted
- They don’t remember you yet (if you call back, you get another chance)
Your instinct might be to respond to the brush-off directly (“Oh, but we can save you 20%!”). DON’T DO THAT. That just gets you lumped in with every other pushy salesperson. Instead, sidestep it. Keep the conversation going by staying confident and trying again.
- If it’s a high-value lead, try them at least 10 times before moving on. They won’t even remember they brushed you off the first time.
- Call back quickly. If someone brushes you off today, try them again tomorrow. They probably won’t remember the first attempt, and this time, they may actually listen.
- Don’t answer the brush-off directly. Beat it instead. Instead of reacting to “I’m not interested,” keep control of the conversation and guide it where you want it to go.
By understanding that brush-offs are uninformed and automatic, you can push past them and start real conversations.
The REAL “Objection” Behind the Brush-Off
When someone brushes you off, what are they really saying?
- I’m busy.
- I don’t like sales calls.
- I don’t know who you are yet.
- I assume you’re like every other seller who’s going to pitch me something useless.

The key to overcoming a brush-off is understanding what’s underneath it. Most brush-offs aren’t real objections, they’re reactions to an interruption. Your prospect isn’t rejecting your solution; they’re rejecting the idea of being sold to in that moment. Your job is to shift their perception of you.
Here’s how to uncover the real meaning behind their response:
- Listen for patterns. Is their response rushed? Dismissive? A sign they don’t trust salespeople? Recognizing their tone helps you respond appropriately.
- Acknowledge and reframe. Instead of pushing back, show you understand: “I hear you. Sounds like you’ve got a lot going on right now.” This lowers their defenses.
- Use curiosity to break through. Ask a question that shifts their attention, like: “Would you say Q4 is your busiest quarter?” or “Out of curiosity, is this something you handle directly, or does someone else manage it?” When they engage, they’re opening the door for a real conversation.
The goal isn’t to argue with their brush-off, it’s to help them rethink it.
WATCH: How To Overcome Brush-Offs On Sales Calls
Get Them Talking (It’s Like Buying a Drink!)
If you’ve ever bought someone a drink at a bar, you know the goal isn’t to “close the deal” in 30 seconds. It’s to start a conversation. The same applies here.
When a prospect gives you a brush-off, they aren’t thinking deeply about your offer, they’re reacting instinctively. Your job is to interrupt that instinctive response and guide them into an actual conversation.
The best way to do that? Use the CCO Framework (Closed, Closed, Open) to break through their initial resistance. Start with simple, closed questions to get them talking, like “Is this a crazy time of year for you?” or “Would you say Q4 is typically your busiest quarter?” Once they’re engaged, move to an open question that invites more thought, like “Is this for a short sales cycle, or do deals take months to close?” By following this structure, you can take control of the conversation and steer it toward a meaningful discussion.

As a reminder, a brush-off is different from an objection. An objection is a real, considered response to your pitch, something they’ve thought about and have a concern over, like pricing, timing, or relevance. A brush-off, on the other hand, is a knee-jerk reaction designed to end the conversation before it even starts. Your job isn’t to overcome an objection here, it’s to keep them talking long enough to break their automatic dismissal.
DOWNLOAD: 4-Step Process to Overcome Objections
Shaking up the conversation with a pattern interrupt gets them to stop and engage. Small talk about something unexpected (like their location, the weather, or a recent event) can lower their defenses and make them more receptive. People also love talking about themselves, so guiding them toward a topic related to their role or priorities can naturally steer the conversation toward business without feeling forced.
Breaking Through Brush-Offs
Once you start recognizing brush-offs for what they really are—automatic, uninformed reactions—you’ll realize they’re not personal and they’re not final. The key to overcoming them is choosing the right approach. You can take the direct path by breaking the ice with the CCO Framework (Closed, Closed, Open), easing your way into the conversation until the prospect naturally engages. Or you can sidestep the brush-off completely by shifting the conversation to something unexpected, like their location, the weather, or a relatable topic, disrupting their auto-response and creating an opening for dialogue.
Either way, the goal is to bypass their defenses and turn a brush-off into a real sales conversation. Try it out, test both methods, and see what works best.
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7 Phone & Video Prospecting Tips for Sales Reps to Crush It
Plenty of sales reps love the convenience of email and LinkedIn prospecting. But poorly crafted, AI-generated messages do little to build rapport and trust with your prospects.
That’s why, as much as some people despise it, you have to pick up the phone.
As young reps continue to phase into the sales force, there is a growing challenge for them to get beyond the keyboard. And while the pandemic certainly didn’t help matters, fostering those face-to-face (or voice-to-voice) connections has become more critical than ever.
Suffice it to say that salespeople can’t afford to rest on their laurels. We have to fight harder to build pipeline, persuade prospects, and win deals.
That means moving from behind the keyboard, picking up the phone, and utilizing videos in prospecting.
If you’re ready to crush it, here are seven tips that can help our reps make the most of phone and video in their prospecting efforts.
1. Don’t rely on email alone
It’s important to connect with people on social and email, certainly. But think about it: when’s the last time you bought something over email?
Never mind that people are wary of scammers and phishing attempts. No one buys from text on a screen.
People buy from other people. More importantly, they buy from people they trust.
That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t use email. But there are ways to make email more engaging and personal.
For example, emails that use video get a 96% higher click-through rate than those that don’t. It makes sense: video shows off your face, which helps to foster that personal connection.
So if you’re relying on a “spray and pray” approach to email where you’re sending as many as you can hoping for something to stick, just stop. You’ve got way more tools at your disposal.
2. Make your videos watchable
Just getting started using video in your prospecting efforts is a great first step. But if you really want to maximize your chance of success, then you need to make your videos as watchable as possible.
Most people drop off of videos 70-80% of the way through. So it’s important to structure your video so you get their attention and deliver necessary value as quickly and efficiently as possible—before they click away.
Here are some tips to make your videos more watchable:
- Start with empathy. Show the prospect that you truly understand the problem they’re facing.
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- Lead with value. Catch the prospect’s attention by offering something to help with that problem as early in the video as possible.
- Use a list to structure your video. “3 things before our call tomorrow,” or “4 things I noticed on your website.” That will help make the video more scannable and increase the prospect’s likelihood of retaining that information
- Caption your video. Adding captions to videos can increase the watch rate by up to 80 percent. Captions also help with scannability.
- Put your call-to-action in the middle. It logically makes sense to throw the CTA at the end. But by that point, most people have dropped off. Put it in the middle to increase the likelihood that people will actually see it.
3. Use the prospect’s name off the bat
The first few seconds of a video are key to getting your relationship with the prospect off on the right foot. One great way to do this: use the prospect’s name.
This goes back as far as Dale Carnegie: people perk up when they hear their own name. When you use their name, you set the tone of the relationship as a familiar one, which increases their likelihood to trust you.
What’s more, when you use a prospect’s name in a video, it’s proof that you aren’t batch-sending messages. You’re taking the time to record a personalized message, which shows that you’re putting effort into building that connection.
WATCH: 10 Tips for Building Human-to-Human Connections on Sales Calls
4. Don’t just call prospects once
It’s no surprise that phone calls used in tandem with email help to increase the likelihood of a response.
The problem, however, is that only 10% of sales reps make more than three attempts to reach a prospect. Calling more than three times may seem like a lot, when you consider that it takes anywhere from seven to fourteen touches to get a conversation with a prospect, then frequent follow-up is key to making that conversion.
Also remember that while email and social media are powerful tools, they have one purpose: to get you on a call with the prospect. That’s the only way you’ll be able to sell them.
5. Don’t waste time following up if your data is incorrect
Spray and pray is popular because it’s quick and easy. Even if half the data is incorrect, you’re spending so little time on each prospect that it nets out positive.
But when you’re taking the time to follow up multiple times, record videos, and build relationships with prospects, investing in the wrong people can be a significant time sink.
That’s why it’s important to do your homework. One tip we recommend at Factor 8 is if you get a voicemail, hit the 0 button to find the directory or talk to someone else in the company.
What I tell people is: try to be James Bond for about 10 dials. You’re going to learn something critical that will help you find the right person or provide you with important information that you can then use to land the deal:
- Who reports to who?
- What system do they have?
- How long has your decision maker worked there?
- Are there any current projects that are a priority?
- How many employers/locations are there?
- Other key influencers that you should include in the process?
Use your personality, talk to people, and get some critical account information that can help you become more successful as you build your relationship with them over time.
READ MORE: How to Use Sales Intelligence to Boost Profits
6. Qualify, qualify, qualify
First of all: sales qualification is not the same as lead qualification. The latter is a marketing indication that a prospect may be ready to buy due to their engagement. Sales qualification is about how much money you can make with a particular account—what’s the potential that they’ll buy from you?
There are a number of factors that go into play here:
- Size of sales team—more reps means more revenue
- Is the company B2B or B2C?
- What tools or platforms does the company already have (especially important if you sell SaaS)?
- Do salespeople have to acquire their own tools or does the company provide them?
One great tip for this: don’t blow past the gatekeepers! In your haste to get to the decision maker, you may end up missing the opportunity to gain some vital information on the company that can help you tailor your video and phone communications.
READ MORE: How to Build an Account and Lead Qualification Strategy
7. You were hired for your personality—use it
If marketing could source leads and close deals on their own, we wouldn’t need sales.
The reason you have a job is because salespeople can do something marketers just can’t. You weren’t hired to send canned messages. Marketing can do that more efficiently than you.
Salespeople are there because personality makes a huge difference in how prospects feel about potential vendors. For many businesses, it’s the people that are the differentiator between themselves and their closest competitors.
So let people get to know you. You’ve been hired to be a personality. Use it!
If your sales team struggles to use phone and video effectively, Factor 8 can provide the training and resources needed to get everyone up to speed. Learn more about our training and coaching services here.
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Top Sales Closing Techniques
So you put in the hard work, you hooked your prospect, you got to the decision-maker, and you’re at the finish line – it’s now time to close the sale.
Time to celebrate? Not quite yet…
A shocking 64% of reps don’t actually end up closing the deal. (and unsurprisingly enough, only 10% of customers will close themselves).
So, why aren’t most reps closing? Hint: there are 5 main reasons.
Keep reading to learn our top sales closing techniques. Buckle in, folks!
You Feel Too Pushy & Lack Confidence
I get it – you don’t want to come off as the “used car” sales rep and hound someone to get your deal finalized. Or maybe you’re just nervous and don’t have the full confidence to take that last step.
Let me help you out here – take a look at the graphic below of the buying funnel. Most prospects are stuck up in the top half – they’re in research mode!

When you lack the confidence to ask for the close, you’re letting them stay in an endless loop of research and evaluation without clear next steps. The reality is you should be offering clear steps on the VERY FIRST CALL to lead them into the evaluation phase.
Think about it like this: when you go to buy coffee in the morning or stop to pick up lunch, do you walk up and order? Or do you wait for someone to ask you what you want? You probably stared at the menu figuring out what to get and then someone asked if they could take your order, right? They prompted you out of your research and evaluation mode into the bottom half of the funnel!
Helping lead them into those next phases is the core of being a sales rep! It’s not pushy, and not doing it shows a lack of confidence. This is where you decide if you are a true salesperson or not.
Remember: Closing. Helps. The Buyer.
You Don’t Know How To Ask
If you’re worried it sounds too good to be true – it’s not! You can literally just ASK them questions to inch closer to the close. Okay, so the reality is that a lot of those go-to closes rely on cheesy or crappy tactics. Here are a couple good questions and statements for closing sales to steal:
- Ask a Question: Did we solve the problem? Did we meet your needs? Ready to move onto the next step?
- Make an Assumption: We’ll get this nailed down and start next week. When do you want to take delivery? (You’re acting like you’re already involved in the next step!)
- Which pitch: Which solution is a better fit right now? Which option is a better match for budget? Do you like option A or option B?
- Timeline: You mentioned wanting XYZ in place by next month – working backward we’ll need to ink the contract by next week.
- Add-On: If we can get this wrapped up by the end of the month, we can throw in an extra license and a live training.
DOWNLOAD: How to Transition to Close
You Need More Customer Info
Don’t make the super embarrassing mistake of lacking customer insight and information by the time you get all the way to closing!
CSO Insights estimates that 26% of deals are actually LOST because sellers weren’t fully aligned to a buyer’s needs before closing. Save yourself the time and hassle by making sure you know these before you get to close:
- What is the agreed customer goal or pain?
- What is the “why” behind the buy/value to them?
- What’s their budget & timeline?
- What does their buying process look like?
- What is their current state vs. desired state?
- Are there other options/competition?
- Any personal motivation here?
(Hint, if you need help coming up with a pitch that aligns with their value – check out SWIIFT℠!)
READ: SWIIFT℠ Selling Methodology
You’re Out of the Closing Habit
Closing is a muscle just like anything else – if you aren’t exercising it, you’re not going to know what to do with it when the time comes to use it!
You can close every single call you have with something we like to call closing for commitment.
Think about football for a second. You’ve got your first downs to lock it in – and instead of having to go all the way back, you get to start on THAT yard line. Now when you apply to this sales – even if it’s something small you’re getting a customer to make a commitment to you. That means next time you’re starting from THAT point! You’re taking up mindshare with them.
Here’s an example:

You’ll never have to ask yourself if it’s closed because you will know and you will OWN exactly what you need to do.
Always plan for the win!
READ: Increase Close Rates Fast With This Technique
You Don’t Know When to Close
Can you guess the most critical stage when it comes to closing?
Gong did a study on this, and believe it or not – the qualification stage is MOST important. Close rates decline by 71% when the next steps are not covered on that first call. Plus – deals that closed the fastest spent 1.53 times MORE talking about those next steps compared to other deals.
If you have a well-defined sales process, you’re 33% more likely to close your deals (TAS Group). And if you don’t know how to gauge when that is or how it plays out – do a trial close! Try something different!
Sometimes you have to abandon your sales script, and that’s okay.
Read: Quickly Transition to Close on Sales Calls
The more confident you get with closing, I promise the easier this gets. So don’t be afraid to get out there, practice, and remember that there’s a closing strategy for each and every one of those fears you might have. You got this – now go get those deals!
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8 Tips to Show Executive Presence on Sales Calls
Congratulations! You got the big boss to attend your call. Now let’s make sure you’ve got enough executive presence to impress them.
Senior executives by definition have less time and patience than any other decision-maker. No big surprise. But you might be surprised to learn they probably also have less knowledge than anyone else on your call. They’ll also have different expectations. Here are some tips for making sure you’re ready to make your shortlist in just one call and understand how to show executive presence.
1. Demonstrate organization ASAP.
Create and send an agenda, be sure the invite and link/location are clear and sent well ahead of time, and start the call with background and introductions.
2. Background is critical.
Even if you’ve been talking with this company for months and this is call #5, you should assume the executive knows exactly none of this history. Help them orient themselves quickly to this meeting by briefly explaining:
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- Who you are
- What industry/space you play in
- What challenges you’re helping them solve
- Where you are in the sales process
- The goal of this call
3. Make everything SWIIFT℠.
(If you’re new to Factor 8, that stands for “So What’s In It For Them”). That means that even if your goal of the call is to get a commitment, you must communicate it in SWIIFT℠ language, like helping them decide to go/no go with the project or if you are a viable solution to their needs (see, it’s about THEIR needs, not your sale).
Let’s pause here for an example. Let’s say you’ve been evaluating training vendors to help scale your sales operation. Your VP of Sales boss has joined the call. The vendor (me at Factor 8) says:
Welcome, everyone! Great to meet you, Mr. Big Boss. Let me start with a quick background. My name is Lauren Bailey, the founder of Factor 8, a rep and manager training provider in the virtual sales space. ABC company is evaluating us to help you with your rapid-scale goal – specifically more onboarding and upskilling for your SDRs, AEs, and managers. This is our third meeting with your team, and today our goal is to answer all of your questions about how it might look should we work together – so you and the team can decide if we move forward. Does that work?
Obviously, you’ll use your own words here, but I do encourage you to plan this out (to be clear, I rewrote this three times!). Script, bullets, whatever works for you, but it’s critical to start clearly and strongly. OK, back to the list.
4. Let them start.
Most execs get a quick read and will instantly have questions to accompany their impressions. As a rule after a strong intro, I ask what they want to accomplish and if they have any initial questions. Then I arrange my meeting to hit their needs in priority order. Try it, I bet 9 out of 10 times they’re sitting on something they want, and until it comes off their chest they’re only half-listening to you.
BONUS: every other vendor launches into their regular dog and pony show. Letting them talk first and systematically hitting all of their requests instantly differentiates you (and clues you into so much!)
5. Start with the big picture.
Executives bounce from meeting to meeting with a huge range of subjects and almost NEVER have the time to pre-read the agenda, email, website, or proposal. So assume nothing! Tell them the category, the goal, or the situation before filling in the details. If you start with the features, the end result, or the specifics they’ll just stop listening and assume YOU are the disorganized one.
Truth: Even my husband has learned to communicate with me this way. It sounds like, “Honey? Got a sec? OK, it’s about our kids’ lunches…”
This is especially important because we work together too, so our “meetings” together could range from commission structures to date nights. 😀
6. Brevity ALWAYS wins.
Go and edit your questions AND your stock answers to cut your words by half. Give a short and decisive answer and then ask if they want an example or more detail.
7. Defer to them.
I don’t mean you should ignore everyone else on the call. In fact, do all you can to make them look very good in front of the boss. But if 2 people ask a question at once, the executive always wins. Check in with them individually to see if they like your direction, agree with the summary you just gave, or have anything to add, etc. They’ve earned their position and although they may not demand special treatment, they’ve probably gotten used to receiving a little.
8. Project confidence.
Even if your answer is, “I don’t know,” say it with a strong tone and volume, promise to get back with them, and then move on. Sit up straight, frame your chest and shoulders in your video shot (if using), and don’t get over-excited. Hemming and hawing, telling long stories, BS-ing, and going in circles with lots of extra words will guarantee you lose.
All of these tips combined will help you project yourself as an equal because executives make fast assumptions about your company and your solution based on how you present yourself in the meeting. It’s OK if you’re 22 and new, just as long as you come off as organized and confident.
The best thing you can do now is to go back and listen to or watch several recent meetings with this checklist. Give yourself an executive presence score out of 10 and take a few actions on what you could level up.
Now knock ‘em dead!
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Top Cold Call Tips and Techniques
People love to ask, “Is Cold Calling Dead?” It’s probably for the controversy effect more than anything, right? My answer (like all great consultants) is, “It depends.” Marketing has come a long way indeed to ensure our brand is recognized before the call. Maybe content has been consumed, landing pages visited, social posts engaged. But if they’ve never talked to us before, is it still cold? Nah, let’s call that warm.
Not all companies are as fortunate. Start-up sellers may not have marketing support and the customer’s first impression is the first call. Even if they may recognize a little something from LinkedIn, it’s not enough to call it warm. Marketing tells us it takes at least 4 touches to actually leave an impression, and 6-8 to get to the point of purchasing (some companies even require 20+ touches!)
But can we be honest for a second? Sellers don’t give a darn. An outbound call to someone who isn’t expecting the call feels cold. Frigid below-zero kind of cold to today’s sellers. Why? Most of them haven’t grown up using the phone. My kid was shocked to learn his phone dialed out. “What!? It’s not just for texting!?”
Your millennial sales force wants to email and send LinkedIn messages. I know this because I get 30 a day. Want to differentiate? Immediately…
Ban the spam and get on the phone!
New to phone sales? Here are some cold call tips to help the water feel a bit warmer:
- You’re immediately differentiating yourself by calling vs. emailing. This is a very good thing. I get 30 messages a day and about one voicemail per week.
- It will take about six calls for you to get a hold of most of your prospects and most sellers give up after two. This is the game, my friends, do NOT give up. Do NOT take it personally. Cheerfully make your tally mark and know you are one call closer to a sale. Remember from above that it takes 6-8 touches to buy? Each time you leave a message it’s a touch. Sales is math.
- Yes, leave a voicemail! About every two days is great. No voicemail = no touch. You’ve made the dial but forgotten the return. Read more about voicemails that actually get returned here.
- Intersperse written messages. Use your outreach tool to help you send a series of voicemails, emails, and social messages over a period of 2-6 weeks. Close enough to be recognized from the last touch but not so close to being considered a stalker. You and your sales leaders can determine this.
- Design your outreach cadence based on client potential. If you’re doing account-based marketing and this is a top prospect, you’re going to touch more often and for longer. We recommend A, B, C, D lead qualifications. Read more on that here.
OK, now let’s move from strategy to psychology.
How do I beat cold call rejection? Rejection sucks. Be very clear that cold call dodging is not rejection! Imagine a stranger calling you just to tell you that they don’t want to talk with you anymore. Um, OK. I’m cool with that. Feels different if it’s your best friend or your brother, right? Now THAT is rejection. They know you. They don’t like you. Ouch.
A stranger saying they have no time, they’re not interested, or simply launching a call is not rejection. It’s a busy life. They don’t know your name, your company, your face, or your annoying habits yet. 🙂 It’s called call dodging, not YOU dodging.
Let’s also focus on sales as a helping profession. I recommend you spend a good four hours immersed in customer testimonials and case studies before picking up the phone for the first time. Learn why people love your product and your company. Learn about the problems you’ve solved and the situations you’ve bailed them out of at work! Your job is to find people struggling with these situations and save them. Your job is to educate them on a solution. What would they do without you? What if they don’t even know a solution exists!? What if they’re searching for a solution right now and are about to make a big mistake!? I want you to really dig in and picture this scenario and then picture this stranger thanking you for helping them. See it clearly and then see it every time before you pick up the phone.
In a cold call rut? Try picturing your best friend next time you hit “send.” Get a smile on your face and really imagine it. Your entire energy will change and you’ll be shocked how you’ll come off better.
Need more cold call inspiration? I want you to imagine that this outbound calling job is actually your business degree. Hell, your MBA program. Your job on every single call is to learn something about their business, their industry, their company, and their job role. It’s called genuine curiosity my friends, and nobody displays it in sales anymore. Be fascinated. Be inspired. Seek to truly learn and grow. Your prospect will be so flattered and surprised, you’ll learn everything you need to know to qualify or uncover a need. You may even find your future perfect job situation!
Finally, a few skills to help. The most important skills to turn dials into actual leads or opportunities are:
- Voicemails. Yeah, we covered this before. If you leave 10-15 voicemails a day using our techniques, you’ll get at least 2 returned. That’s 10 conversations a week. Folks, that’s like a bonus day of the week. You get 6 days to hit your goal while everyone else gets five.
- Call Introductions. 90% of them suck. Yeah, sorry about that. If you’ve not spent a few hours training and perfecting your intro, it probably sounds like your value prop and is about 10 seconds too long. Learn the SWIIFT℠ Intro that perks their ear and gets them talking. You’ll be shocked at how many conversations happen instead of rejections.
- Overcoming the Brush-Off. Even with a better intro, you’ll get some brush-offs. Remember, this isn’t rejection – they don’t even know you! Most of us either hang up or answer it like an objection, and that’s wrong. How do you overcome “I don’t have time” or overcome “I’m not interested?” By moving around it.
- A Better Value Prop. If marketing wrote it for you, it won’t work in phone sales. Sorry marketing. Value props need to answer who you are and why they care in a way that your grandmother could understand. The best ones use “The rule of three” to get their brain accidentally picturing your services.
In summary, no matter the temperature of your outbound calls, when you make them a game, adjust your mindset, and layer in some skills, then you and your team can harness the incredible power that most of your competition has left behind. Sure, it’s easier to pop an email but remember:
“Nobody ever bought anything over email.”
Choose to be in sales instead of marketing. Pick up the phone and have some fun!
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How to Improve Buyer Engagement in Video Sales Meetings
There’s no denying that “something’s missing” when we move from in-person meetings to video. It’s true of team meetings, training, and especially sales calls. If video is part of your every day, how do you stand out from the crowd?
The baseline of video acumen has risen since the early days of remote work. You’ve got to go beyond the basics and use video as a tool in your arsenal. Thanks to technology, we can actually measure the effectiveness of our video meetings with AI tools.
How would you rate on a scale of 1 to 10 if we asked your prospects how engaging your sales call is?
What is Engagement vs. Sentiment?
When measuring the effectiveness of your sales calls, you’ve got to watch two things: engagement and sentiment.
For quick reference, here’s how we break down the two:
- Engagement = buyer’s attention or presence on the sales call
- Sentiment = buyer’s attitude or emotion towards the seller
According to Q for Sales, Uniphore’s AI-powered Sales Assistant, an engaged customer has an 83% higher propensity to buy than a non-engaged customer. When both engagement and sentiment are high, you’ve got an 89% greater chance of closing the sale.
DOWNLOAD: THE IMPACT OF BUYER ENGAGEMENT AND SENTIMENT ON DEAL OUTCOMES
TL;DR – Get them leaning in quickly, make sure they like you, and you’ve got nearly double the chances of closing the deal.
(Take a peek at Uniphore’s AI tool, Q for Sales, below to see how it tracks sentiment on video meetings.)
How Do You Engage Buyers (Faster)?
Nearly 29% of buyers admit to multitasking during video calls. That means that roughly one-third of buyers aren’t paying attention to you. It’s a lot harder to re-engage someone after they’ve already tuned out, so starting the call with a high level of engagement is key.
Follow these 8 steps to ensure engagement is high from the beginning of your call:
- Stop sharing your screen. Engagement goes down when sellers share their screens. Why? Because sellers ask fewer questions when they’re screen-sharing. We tend to go into a monologue and talk AT the buyer, vs. carry a conversation and ask questions. It’s not about the screen, but rather our behavior while the screen is up.
- Share personal information. Create a quick bond with a buyer by sharing something personal about yourself. It helps you find commonality and build quick rapport with the buyer.
- Review goals and the agenda. Start the call by outlining the goals and topics of discussion before diving in. Make sure you check in to see if the buyer wants to cover any other topics or has any other questions. This is especially important when selling to the C-suite. Give them the opportunity to drive the conversation by gauging what they want to cover on the call.
- Ask questions. As a general rule, the seller’s goal of the call should be to uncover as much important information as possible from the buyer. You do this by talking less and asking more questions.
- Ask them to recap their challenges. Even if they’ve told you what their challenges are before, you don’t want to put words in their mouth – it’s a surefire way to disengage them. Ask them to share their current situation and challenges.
- Match their energy. Imagine showing up to a sales call on a Monday morning after your 5th cup of coffee. The buyer shows up yawning and barely even awake. You want to lower your energy level to match theirs. If they’re pumped up and high-energy, match it. If they’re relaxed and calm, match it. It’s a form of empathy when you’re able to connect with buyer by matching their energy level to build trust and rapport.
- Say it with a smile. Positivity is contagious. Smiling automatically has a positive effect on your buyer’s sentiment. If you want to be easier to connect to, watch your facial expressions. Do you find yourself scowling without realizing it (read: RBF!)? Then practice smiling on all calls.
- Give them eye contact. It’s tough when you’ve got multiple screens with Slack, email, a presentation, and Zoom all open at the same time, but you’ve got to make sure you’re looking AT the camera and giving buyers eye contact. Tip: Put your notes underneath your camera so you can read from them while making eye contact.
How Do You Encourage A Buyer To Turn On Their Camera?
You ask them to turn it on. Easy, right? Yet 83% of sellers don’t do it. And, it’s so much harder to connect with someone when you can’t see them.
Need more of an incentive to ask? Let’s break it down with stats…
- Less than 10% of the message in a conversation is verbal
- Between 30-35% is in the tone, speed, or pitch
- But a whopping 50% of the conversation is visual (hello, body language)
So if you don’t ask them to turn on their camera, you’re missing more than half of the conversation.
If you need a little help asking them, try any of these out on your next sales call:
“Hey, if it’s not too forward, are you OK sharing your camera so we can talk face-to-face?”
“OK, camera bullying time! No hiding! Unless you’re literally naked, please pop it on. Thank you so so much. It’s hard talking to myself.”
“I promise I didn’t get dressed up for this meeting and there’s zero judgment! Would you mind terribly going on video so we can have some eye contact?”
How Can You Tell If A Buyer Is Engaged?
They’re showing signs of active listening and attentiveness by:
- Smiling
- Leaning forward
- Nodding
- Looking at their screen
- Showing their hands
- Chatting, clapping, sharing emojis, etc.
How Can You Tell When A Buyer Is Disengaged?
They’re actively not paying attention and are distracted by something else. If someone is disengaged, they might be:
- Looking away
- Leaning back
- Showing a negative facial expression
- Visibly reading their emails
- Playing on their phone
- Off camera
How Do You Quickly Reengage A Buyer?
- Notice or mention something that could be common ground – “I see that gorgeous picture in your background.”
- Share something first – “I am an avid sunrise photographer. Although, I don’t see them enough lately!”
- Ask a closed & follow-up question – “Did you take that yourself? It’s so beautiful! Where is it?”
- Ask an open question – “Tell me about it?”
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You’ve got to master the art of active listening in order to effectively engage (or reengage) buyers.
Here’s how to be a great listener:
- Listen actively – No interrupting, look at the camera, nod your head
- Acknowledge – “Yes”, “Okay, got it”, “Mm-hmm”
- Restate (with empathy) – “OK, what I heard was that you’ve tried this many times already and it may be a little frustrating now.”
- Check-in – “Did I get that right?”
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What Do You Do When A Buyer Disengages?
The first thing is to stop screen sharing. That way you can talk and pivot the conversation. Try some of these scripts to get your call back on track:
“I’ve been talking like 5 straight minutes, and I think I lost ya’ll. My bad. NAME, what’s the next most important thing we can cover for you?”
“Hey, I think I went off track. My bad. Let’s go back to the agenda. Is this still what you want to accomplish? Quick show of hands if you’d like to move on to XYZ item?”
“Let’s take a beat here to check-in. Could you please give me a thumbs up if you’re tracking with me 100% or a hand raise if you have a question? If I lost you completely, sit very still…”
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How Do You Build Trust With Buyers?
Let’s talk about trust. According to Hubspot, only 3% of people trust salespeople.
“Trust is not something you can ask for, you need to earn trust. It takes hours, weeks, and years to build it, but seconds to lose it.” Sylvain Tremblay, CRO, Uniphore
Since trust is earned, that means we all start at the bottom of the trust scale, at mistrust. Luckily, we don’t start at distrust, that’s when someone knows us and has actively lost trust in us.
Mistrust means that they aren’t sure of our character based on the fact that we’re a salesperson and their fear that we’re going to try to force them to purchase their product.
Our job as salespeople, through empathy, engagement, and rapport building, is to move up the trust scale as fast as possible. Folks, you’ll never make it to the top of the trust scale in a call or two. It takes time to build trust. The goal is to simply move up the scale faster.
How Do You Build Rapport Quickly?
We’ve all heard that people buy from people they like, but the truth is that people buy from people that are LIKE them. We’re hard-wired to connect to people that are like us. That’s why small talk was invented; to help us find common ground with others.
The key to building authentic rapport (and quickly), is to let people get to know you faster.
Here are a few tips on what you can share with buyers to build rapport:
- Introduce yourself at the beginning of the call
- Get your resume off LinkedIn & share something about your experience
- Connect on LinkedIn with a personal message
- Send a personalized video
- Share some (personal) background
- Add something funny
- Make fun of yourself (pratfall effect)
If you want to connect to your buyer, you’ve got to give to get. Give information about yourself and you’ll get an authentic connection to your buyer.
Want more tips? Watch our 30-minute Sales Shot to learn how to improve buyer engagement in video sales meetings.
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Why You Should Use Video During Sales Meetings
Recently, I shared a panel with Bob Perkins, Morgan Ingram, Shay Keeler, and Dan Breault where we talked about the move to virtual selling.
It was delightful because lately, I’ve mostly been talking with traditional/field sales leaders who are transitioning their teams to virtual selling. We talk about the constraints, the challenges, and the new skills these teams need when they lose face-to-face.
Whether you’re inside or field selling, many of us are selling virtually in some way. If your team is struggling to adapt and/or thrive with video selling, here are a few remote selling tips to help.
Why go video?
First, YES, you want to turn cameras on with customers. Some crazy stats were thrown around during the ExecVision Momentum panel discussion (150% increase in close rate?!). I couldn’t substantiate that one, but I did find data from Gong saying webcams are used 40% more in successful (won) vs. unsuccessful (lost) deals.
Zoom and Forbes cite that 62% of executives agree video conferencing significantly improves the quality of communication.
Not convinced? Here’s an oldie but a goodie – only about 45% of a message is content and tone while 55% is body language.
Even if your customer/prospect doesn’t turn on video, you should.
The last stat alone has been around for decades, so I’m going to go out on a limb and say if you or your team are struggling with adoption, isn’t due to buy-in, it’s due to one of these common resistance points:
- I don’t want to be seen / I don’t look good on video
- My customers don’t use video
- I don’t have the right setup
- I’m just not confident / I have my own routine for calls, and video isn’t it!
Let’s attack these, one by one, with the lens of helping leaders coach their teams to adoption. Here are my remote-selling tips using video.
#1 – If your team doesn’t feel camera ready, share a few tips:
- Put your webcam/laptop up six to ten inches so the camera is toward the top of your head. Everyone looks better when shot from above!
- Put an adjustable light by your camera or a window w/ natural light behind it. Side lighting, low lighting, bright lighting – none of these help us love how we look!
- It’s time to talk about a new ‘get ready for work’ routine! Listen, I loved the era of no video because it meant sweatpants and a hair bun all day. It’s over. Get ready for work as you used to. Do your hair, iron your shirt, and be grateful you don’t have to wear socks and shoes.
Leaders, it’s OK to go here. It’s your job to go here. Don’t let your team show up in a ballcap and torn T-shirt with backlighting and a webcam that looks up their nose. It’s on you.
#2 – If your customer doesn’t use video, it’s OK to ask them to do so. Here’s what I say:
“Hey, if you’re comfortable, I’d love to meet you face-to-face via video! Don’t worry, I’ve got on yoga pants and flip flops too – and it definitely isn’t a great hair day. No judgment!”
Video is a chance to connect face-to-face and asking for it is another opportunity to get human and connect at this level. I openly share that my kids may interrupt wearing their underoos and thereby make it OK for them to be human too.
You may also try setting it up ahead of time. When booking/sending the meeting request, let them know you’ll send it with video and you hope they’ll come on camera and meet face-to-face.
Be prepared to walk a customer through the video process – we all use different technology and they may feel unprepared and uncomfortable as well. Helping them through this further connects you.
When they do get on screen, take a moment to stay in this human space. Comment on background, pictures, window scenes – anything BUT the pile of laundry and dishes that might embarrass them.
#3 If the setup is the issue, find the budget to help. Get a good camera, upgrade to get the virtual background, buy a divider screen, and buy a $30 light. Help set up the camera so it’s a few feet away (or use the Zoom feature) so their head and shoulders are in the frame down to about chest height.
Partner with your team to make this happen, because virtual and video are NOT going away. Don’t let your customers get out in front of you because you didn’t spend $100 to help your team look good and feel confident. This action is ours, leaders!
#4 – The final objection is ours to own as well. If old habits and resistance to change prevent the cameras, help them build these muscles. Run your 1:1 and team meetings with cameras and do a few joint video customer calls. They’ll see it work, feel the connection, and use these new muscles to help the resistance fade.
In short, we need to set the expectation, partner to help us look and feel good, and work together to build new habits. If we aren’t, we’re simply leaving money on the table.
Hear more of LB’s tips on how to ask your prospects/customers to turn their video on below:
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Quickly Improve Prospect Engagement on Sales Calls
How many of you have been on the receiving end of a sales call, bored to tears while the rep on the other end just keeps rattling away? Probably ALL of us.
So what’s the secret to keeping your customers from slowly falling asleep – whether it’s on the phone or a video call?
Here are some quick and easy tips to boost prospect and customer engagement on your next sales call!
The Best Sales Script To Get A Buyer’s Attention
Get Them Talking
The easiest way to tell if you’ve got them engaged is if THEY’RE the ones talking.
One of the best tools you have in your arsenal as a seller is asking the right questions – NOT spewing your value prop and pitch.
Make sure you know the difference between a closed and an open-ended question. A closed question is going to get you nothing but one-word answers. You can start with them, but make sure you have open-ended questions to keep them talking!
- “Do you have a current service provider?” (closed) is going to get a yes or no.
- “What’s your biggest struggle with your current service provider?” (open) – that’s going to get you a LOT more.
And if you get a good hook in one of their answers, don’t be too quick to just move onto your list with the next one! The more you can make it feel like a conversation and show you’re actively listening, the more engaged and natural the flow is going to be. Show them you care by connecting with them.
Here’s an easy summary:
- Closed questions = get them warmed up.
- Open questions = get them expanding.
- Follow-up questions = take them to the next level of expansion.
Read Body Language
If you’re using video on your sales call (HIGHLY suggest this, folks), then you’ve got to focus on their body language. This one might seem like a no-brainer, but here are a couple things to watch for.
- Are they muted? They’re not planning on talking.
- Looking off to the side or down? They’re working on emails.
- Are they propped up? They’re BORED!
If you see any of the above – stop what you’re doing, end your screen share, and get back to a conversation to re-engage them.
Don’t Be Afraid to Get Silly
I’ve been there, with a video call full of people slouched over who couldn’t give a hoot what I was going on about.
You know what I did?
I turned off the presentation, I started cracking some jokes – a little bit of razzing to the guy who came late, asked someone else a question, pinned something funny on another person – and it WORKED! People sat up, they got off mute – they wanted to participate!
It’s okay to take a step back, and it’s okay to get a little silly to get them engaged again.
READ: Quick Tips for Running an Engaging Demo
Try using one of these tips on your next sales call and I guarantee you’ll be surprised how easy it can be to get customers to open up!
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